“What” and “if” are two simple words that
are totally harmless but once you put them together they form one of the
hardest question to answer: “What if?”. It is a great, yet kind of horrific,
question we ask ourselves at times. Who would ever think that this short
statement could fill you with so much guilt and regret? It causes such a great
impact on how we live our life and our perspective of it, especially on
reflecting about the decisions we've made and the things we've done in the
past. This simply teaches us to lessons in life. First, when opportunity comes
make the most of it. Fact says 90% of people who say no and turn down
opportunities often regret the decision they've made. So will you be part of
that 90% of remorseful people? But before that, never forget to pray to God and
ask him for his wisdom and guidance when making a choice or doing something
important, because the holy spirit will just guide you to your right path.
Second, everything happens for a reason, so whatever happened it was God’s
destiny for you. Past is past, learn from your so-called “mistakes”, accept
that you don’t have a time machine, to go back to the past with, and move
forward with a positive attitude in your life for a better and brighter future.
The best cure for these Regretful Blues? Well, it’s acceptance and humility. It
reminds us that we are human. We make mistakes because we’re not perfect.
That’s because perfection is a myth for us humans, we only become better than
what we were before, but we can never be perfect because we are not God.
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